Apologies if this is a long-winded one...
Have been married almost 11 years, have 2 DC 8 & 4. Up until 2009 relationship with DH fine, very secure and loving, no major probs. But 2009 was an awful year: 3 people close to us died, I ended up looking after 3 extra children (their mum, my friend, had died), got depressed, overweight and ill. Then I discovered my DH had been having an 'emotional' affair with another woman. I got very upset and annoyed, but he kept saying it was just a close friendship. However, I saw a text one day, she called him her 'soulmate'. I had to get really, really annoyed and shouty before he stopped seeing her. Anyway, I thought they had not been in contact for ages, our relationship has improved a lot in the last year. BUT:
My DH often takes the kids to the park when he gets in from work (I make dinner or go to zumba class) and my DD has let slip today that they meet up! As in my DH and kids arrive at park and often this woman and her 2 kids arrive shortly after.
I am feeling sick with rage, that he knows I feel this is out of order. I cannot believe he's still seeing her after all this time (behind my back). Have spoken very briefly about it today and he says that sometimes, purely coincindentally, they are there. But I think it is planned.
Am I being paranoid? What the hell is going on? What do I do?
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Confused about my marriage and OW - help/advice please?
RoRoMummy · 06/07/2011 17:52
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