Posted my dramas on the legal thread recently but OMG I just can't stand this living together - apart thing. We broke up in Oct. He is refusing to move out so I'm having to go down the legal route to get some sort of resolution on the house. In the meantime we alternate who looks after the kids each weekend. This weekend is my weekend but because he has no-where to go he just potters around the house. I'm in the middle of making the kids dinner and I'm wondering why I feel and have felt all weekend - sick to the stomach. It's because it's like nothing has happened. It's like we haven't split up. I can't stand this feeling of being trapped and powerless. He said to me at one point that I could talk to him. Yeah I know that - I just don't f want to!
I'm just on a rant to let out my feelings and am not looking for advice as such I just need to get the words I want this abusive mother f*** to leave. I just want to be able to get on with my life. I just him out of my life. I want control of my weekends again aaaaarrrrggggghhhh!!
OK rant over!
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WADA · 06/03/2011 17:06
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