dont even think this goes in Property/DIY - needs to be in a cross between Relationships, Furniture and Bereavement !
I've decorated our dining room without consulting Dh at all. I am very much aware that this is a reaction to my dad dying a few weeks ago -I've been buying stuff and making changes and I realise I'm a bit manic.
We had a big chunky Mexican dining set- table & 6 chairs which Dh loved. But they were enormous and clunky and we only used them at Christmas and I want to start using the dining room much more as a family room. I've broached Dh in the past about getting shut of them but he's always dissuaded me.
Anyway last week I sold the lot for £150 and bought a set from eBay, second hand and smaller, sort of shabby chic stuff.
Dh was a bit but hasn't made a fuss. The reaction of our friends yesterday though when I told them has showed me that I think I've made another stupid mistake (especially at the price I sold our old stuff for) and I think Dh only hasn't said anything because he knows I'm a bit fucked up a bit at the moment.
I know it's pathetic but I think I've upset him and really screwed up as well.
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Think I have made big mistake with house stuff and have upset Dh
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oneofsuesylvesterscheerios · 25/07/2011 10:31
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