At the beginning of each school year I become horribly anxious. I mainly worry whether my son has been placed in the right ability group, and whether the school is enabling my son to reach his full potential.
Does anyone who has been through the primary system have any wise words to help me let go of my anxiety?
My son has just started in Y3. Last year he was in the top ability group for maths and literacy. This year none of the boys have been placed in the top literacy group. My son's reading ability and comprehension skills are very good but his writing ability is slightly lower. Judging by the grouping of the boys in the class I think they were grouped on the basis of their writing ability (content not handwriting) more than their reading ability.
I also worry that a fair proportion of the class are performing below the national average. Will this affect my son's ability to reach his full potential? I wonder whether he'd receive more attention in a primary school where a higher proportion of the children are average or above average.
He's only in year 3 and I'm already worried about whether he'll get into a selective school (I went to Grammar School and would like him to apply when he's older but don't want to set him up for failure). It's ridiculous but I don't know how to let go and relax about his education. Other mums seem to be a lot more relaxed about the whole thing than I am.
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Any wise words to help me let go of the anxiety would be much appreciated.
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Anxiety over son's education
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Mamonaku · 16/10/2009 23:45
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