Hi, hoping some mums who have experienced this can advise.
My son will go into Y4 in Sept. For the first time ever, his school have decided they will mix up all the classes (there are 2 classes in each yr). He has been with the same group of friends since reception.
I understand that this is fairly common practice in lots of schools and am totally supportive of the wider aims of what the school is trying to achieve - we have an imbalance of boys/girls in some years & some behaviour issues that might be resolved by separating, also probably healthy to allow new relationships to develop etc.
However, they committed that existing relationships would be taken into account to ensure children were not isolated from key friendships. And this is where it has all gone wrong, my son has not been placed with ANY of his friends & talking to other mums he appears to be the only boy in this scenario. He is gutted & cried his eyes out in class when the list was announced yesterday, his teachers response was totally unsympathetic and when I spoke to her last night she gave me short shrift & suggested I reflect on things before making an issue of it. I should add that he is well behaved and in top ability groups for everything, so there is no apparent reason to separate him from anyone.
Time is tight as I can only get to school Thurs & Fri and transition day (when they all go spend the day with their new teacher) is next Friday.
I'm sensing that particularly with this being the 1st time they've tried to do this, the school will be very keen not to give in to parental requests to change the classes.
Has anyone got experience of a similar scenario and how did it work out? Or any teachers who can advise whether after publishing lists, there is likely to be any room for manouvre?
Thanks in advance!
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School mixing up all the classes - DS not with any friends - advice please!
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eemum · 03/07/2009 10:50
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