My son is starting in Reception in a couple of weeks and while he is very excited and ready for big school, I can't help wondering how he is going to cope with lunches. He is not a huge fan of sandwiches but does eat things like curries and pasta which seemed to be on the menu given to us by the school, so at first I thought it would be better for him to start straight onto school dinners. He is also very naturally skinny and I thought that a bigger lunch might help him gain weight a bit.
However, I am starting to worry about him staying for school dinners as he is quite fussy about daft things like a bit of meat "having a brown bit" on it (his type of words), or him picking bits of tomato/pepper skin out of his teeth etc and being put off the whole meal.
He is also fussy about trying unfamiliar foods, and still not great with a knife and fork (we are still cutting his food up for him). Plus I'm worrying over little things like his ability to actually CHOOSE his own food at the counter (he's not very good at making quick decisions and I can just imagine them being too busy to wait while he decides what he'd like best). Another worry is that the dinner ladies will force him to finish what's on his place even if he hates it and that will put him off going to school altogether. Plus he's a very slow eater.
How neurotic do I sound!? I wonder if I'm pondering over it too much because I remember hating the whole school lunch thing myself when I was in infants as I was quite fussy and very slow to eat and the dinner ladies were real dragons! Plus the food was disgusting. I ended up going home for lunch I think for a while, but don't want to go down that road with DS!
If I send him with a packed lunch I've got the problem of what to put in it as I know schools are keen for packed lunches to be healthy but he's not that keen on most fruit, and frankly he could do with a lot more calories that he'd get from a couple of pieces of fruit -I would really want to put a chocolate bar in there too as well as some grapes or something, to give him energy. (he seems to need it, I think he's got a fast metabolism or something). Would they confiscate chocolate?!
I really would prefer him to stay for school dinners as I hope it might encourage him to try new things and be less finicky(also less hassle for me in the mornings!), but I just don't want to put him off school altogether if he gets all het up over lunch times.
Is he best starting off with a packed lunch, with familiar foods, while he settles into school? Then perhaps he can switch after half term or something?
What have other mums done? Also, do kids tend to want to do whatever their friends do?
I'm aware this might come across as neurotic but it was an issue for me as a kid and also it put my nephew off school when he didn't get on with school dinners in reception (his mum didn't actualy coax the reason he was miserable out of him for weeks and was really worried about him!) He was fine on packed lunches, and actually now, a few years later, he is happily back on school dinners (as that is what his mates are on!)
Aaaargh - what do I do?
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starting in reception - school dinners or packed lunch?
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rachelp73 · 12/08/2008 22:09
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