DD has been targetted, again, by 2 boys at school. 1 in her class, the other a year below. They had spent a lot of time together in after school club in the past, and as the older and pretty active/sporty ones, tended to be out and competitive in the yard a lot of afternoons.
DD ended up leaving the after school club as they couldn't get on top of it (and it was starting to spill over into the classroom). DD does have ADHD and ASD (previously called aspergers) but has learned to deal with that much better - but can explode at times if riled and these boys know that.
Having left 2 after school activities, as well as moving after school club (a Daunt collected her 1 afternoon and she went to a different after school club 2 afternoons, going home herself after 2 long afterschool activities twice a week), it seemed a lot better for the rest of last year (Dec to end June) and had seemed ok for the start of this year.
But DD has been on the phone to me (abroad for work) in tears, after getting targetted this afternoon for kicking and throwing soil at her - and admitted the 2 involved have been doing it at 1 activity for the past few weeks.
I have already sent an email to the after school activity coordinators at school this afternoon, informing them of the incident and wanting to know what they will do (and offering either DH or I to meet them this week, before half term next week). After calming DD down.
But can any wise MNers give me advice about what I should be looking for or how to deal with school on this one?
I feel as though we did as they asked last year in pulling her out, but that they have a duty of care too to make sure it doesn't happen. (And it is the same 2 as before!).
It's Ireland, so possibly slightly different to the UK, but probably not that different.
Any hand holds available? Or words of wisdom?
(And I will be back - I have another meeting I need to get to yet, but I will be here later again).
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BiddyPop · 24/10/2017 17:04
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