I,m looking for some advise please.
My partner and I have recently moved in together with his 6yr daughter and my two age 9 and 13.
We are both widows sadly but feel lucky that we have found each other and that our children have the chance of a settled family life.
My partner has relocated which is about 40 miles from where they used to live.
We have applied to get his daughter into school with my daughter but have been told due to class size legislation we have been refused.
She is in yr 2 and at the moment they are having to travel back to her old school which is taking over an hour every day, this means a 80 mile round trip. They leave at 7.15 am everyday and it is beginning to takes its toll on her.
She has been through so much at such a young age, losing her mum at the tender age of 3yr.
she has had a huge amount of help from school, helping her cope with being different from the others. Accepting her mummy isn’t coming back. She found it extremely hard to settle at school at first.
With this in mind we knew how important it was to make sure that moving schools was a smooth and happy process.
It was vital that she would be with her big sister, my daughter. We live in the same street as school so another reason why we wanted her to go there. She has also made some friends of her own through my daughter who would be in her class.
The head of our school has been extremely supportive of our fight and has said he would be happy to have her, even though it would take him over his allocation in yr2. He explained it would not effect the class and that they would cope with the extra one.
We are extremely worried that the journey every day is not helping her at all as it is leaving her so tired to cope with her day.
She gets distressed every morning leaving for school as she has to go somewhere different from her sister and so early.
It makes our family feel extremely disjointed at the moment as we have to go off in different directions.
She does have detachment issues and we are trying to cope with these as best we can.
She is a little girl who desperately needs to feel like she belongs with her family, someone who needs familiar faces and surroundings around her.
We want to make an appeal but don’t know how to approach it as we are asking to go above the class size numbers.
Any advice would be great, thank you.
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Debmark · 05/10/2017 14:13
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