DS has just started y3, he's one of the youngest in his year, and also small for his age (growth delay). Which means he's not great at sports, and lacks confidence a little. Feedback from school on friendships has always been positive, though he's not really settled into a defined friendship group - there are another four or so boys he regards as his closest friends - they all live very close to each other and see each other out of school a fair bit, but not that near to us. They are also all quite into sports. I've always seen them as nice boys.
Since being back at school, there have been four instances where he's come home a bit upset at teasing - varying degrees of meanness - e.g. "you're too small to be in year 3, you should be in year 1". The teasing is coming from this group of boys. I've talked about the difference between friendly teasing (where both sides think it's funny), mean teasing (where the other person wants to make you sad) and silly teasing (where they think they're just being funny but ends up hurting feelings). He thinks it's silly teasing. He's sensitive to comments about his size (as am I!), and he struggles to brush them off.
Not sure what to do to help - how to boost his confidence to deal with this, whether to speak to the teacher, whether to speak to the mums (I know that's normally not recommended, but I think at least a couple of them wouldn't be happy that they've been saying what they have).
Any thoughts?
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Ds (7yo) not coping that well well with teasing
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AalyaSecura · 18/09/2017 18:20
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