Hello. I'm posting this because I had a lot of ideas, help and support from Mn-etters when I was worried about my son towards the end of Reception. For a long time I've wanted to come back on here to share what I've learned in order to help anyone who was like me. A recap: my son spent AGES learning his letter sounds, and forgetting them again. By the end of Reception he could do a bit of basic C-A-T but was finding the going very hard. That's when I turned to Mumsnet. Was he just a later born boy? Or should I be concerned? Opinion divided right down the middle.
But the most useful advice I got was to get his eyes tested, which I did at the start of September Y1. I would recommend this to anyone as a first step. He had passed school eye tests and I had no doubt his eyes were fine. But the excellent optician diagnosed severe convergence insufficiency, which we were referred to Moorfields for. We spend the rest of Y1 treating it under their supervision and a private behavioural optometrist, and it's now gone. I had hoped that would be the last of it, but the underlying reading difficulty remained, although now it was a lot less tiring for him to try (he used to find looking at the text physically painful).
So - second Mumsnet tip: Dancing Bears. We started this in the Spring of Year 1, and I have to say, whatever problems he had with reading, Dancing Bears targeted precisely. Repetition, drilling in phonics sounds. It was exactly what he needed and we are still doing it most days when we can, for ten minutes. To anyone in our position, I had been put off Dancing Bears by the idea that it was somehow for people older than my son. You can start it actually as young as you like. It's very boring, but it gets them to read right - no guessing. If I was doing it all again now, I'd wish to have started him on Bear Necessities back in Reception.
He is now in Y2 and his reading is miraculously at average level. From where he was even at the end of Y1, I never thought we'd get to that. I hope this is a positive post and I'm just writing it in the spirit of paying it forward. By the way, I'm glad I listened to the "get on it" camp - I think we'd still be very much struggling if we hadn't intervened. I think you know deep down when things just aren't right. He's still struggling a bit tbh - but it's a journey of sorts and, anyway, I'll stop now, because this is sort of a thank you letter to everyone out there.
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If you worry your Reception child is struggling to read - just some personal advice...
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Bambismum · 02/12/2014 15:04
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