My DS (6) is on a trial gluten/dairy free diet for a few weeks as suggested by a gastroenterologist and a NHS dietician. The problem is, the school and more specifically, the TA, have been interfering to the point of making me feel depressed, angry and patronised. Today, I found a scrappy note in my DS's bag from the TA saying she thought DS wasn't getting enough protein due to my DS' diet. I'm annoyed at this as she must know that he cannot only eat what's on offer for a gf/cf child - we had a school meeting about this not long ago. The dietician thinks I'm doing a good job and I know I am. On the days there's nothing suitable for him I send him in with a packed lunch with all the food groups, macronutrients etc... today he had baked beans and he has meat as long as it's not breaded etc. He gets plenty of protein when he's at home - basically, I'm trying my best and doing what's best for him.
What annoys me is that she's patronising and questioning my parenting skills and the advice from the professionals. I'm incredibly cheesed off and thinking of writing a letter of complaint. I should mention DS goes to a mainstream school and that he has learning difficulties with most of the ASD traits. I don't know how to word the complaint without justifying and sounding angry (although I am). What would other parents do in this situation? I can't simply forget about this as there have been other issues (toenails need cutting, hair is too long; never been to his shoulders even).
Is her interference acceptable/the norm?
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DiamondDoris · 13/05/2013 19:20
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