Dc3 (dd1) has just turned 9 and is in year 4. She is bright and capable, but lacks confidence in maths....just like I did! In her class there are 5 maths groups and she has just been moved out of the top one into the second one - this is a crisis for her as she has always been in the top group in all subjects.
I have tried to explain to her that this will help her, but she can only see it as a bad thing. Ds2 (12) tried to help (unusual for him!) and said that he had just gone up to the top group having spent most of primary and all of year 7 in the second group, so she can move back. He said he preferred it in the second group at primary, as when he was briefly in the top, he didn't like the competitive racing to finish the questions first.
She had maths homework last night. She seemed ok with it, but when I looked over it she had got in a right muddle. I tried to help her, but she was hysterical. We left it. This morning I suggested to her that I could get her a workbook that we can do together - if she wants to. She did and she has said she won't get hysterical
I had a quick look online and there are loads. Can anyone recommend one?
She is terrified of giving the wrong answer - I have told her loads of times that you learn through mistakes and that she must ask the teacher if she is stuck, but she is very quiet. Oh goodness, I just see myself when I listen to her! How do i cure this problem of worrying about the wrong answer? She can do it, she just has this fear about it - I can see it in her eyes!!
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pigsinmud · 26/02/2013 12:23
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