Hi,
My son is 5 1/2 and in year 1. Every parents evening we are told the same thing, that his behaviour is variable, he sometimes misbehaves, all fairly low level stuff, flicking rubbers and pencils, not listening first time, knocking down a tower someone else has built. It's mainly silly stuff, he likes to act the clown.
He is in the top group in his class in terms of what he is achieving, but we have been told he is capable of so much more if he would just settle down a bit. We have tried all sorts to try and get this message through, we've read books on good behaviour etc. I've tried interrogating him every night so I can try to find out if he has been good or not. Teacher says he doesn't feel it's necessary for a daily handover as it's not just him and it is all fairly low level stuff.
I know there are two other boys in the class who are a few months younger than him that are also doing the same sort of stuff.
I know he is only 5 and the Teaching Assistant has told me today that it is just an immaturity thing and he will grow out of it but I really want to try and nip it in the bud. It's a small school too and I am worried he will end up with a reputation which will follow him through school.
I did think about doing a chart of some kind and getting him to help me decide on various examples of good behaviour and bad behaviour and putting them in the correct column on the chart but wondered if anyone has any other ideas? I really really want to help and support him without coming down on him like a tonne of bricks. He is well aware what is right and what is wrong. Seems he just likes to be the class clown!
We've got reward charts etc in place but ultimately I don't know what he is doing in the day at school so it's difficult as I'm reliant on him for info.
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5 1/2 year old misbehaving in class. Help!
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NigellaEllaElla · 15/02/2013 17:36
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