DD is in YR3 at the local primary school. Just had parents evening and it was awful. Teacher said one nice thing about DD (which wasn't school related) and then it was all negative.
DD is a bright but doesn't like to show it sort of child. She clearly has ability and this is evident when you speak to her, but from her school work you wouldn't know it. She has always been a bit of a day dreamer and really needs to be pushed (which I understand is difficult with a class of 30). I feel like the teacher has written her off. She told me, when I asked if she is being given work that is to her ability or to what she shows, that she doesn't give her as much or challenge her as much as others as she doesn't finish it. I made the point that maybe it might be worth giving her work which she is capable off and might be a challenge to get her more interested as this is what happened last year and it worked (I wasnt rude or telling her what to do but just a suggestion).
She is now referring her to the SENCO. I asked why specifically but she said no specific reason, just to see if there was anything that came up as she doesn't know what else to do.
DD has been really unhappy since starting year 3. She was split from her best friend which has made her upset but there is more to it. She has even suggested changing schools which worried me as she is only 7 and shouldnt be thinking like that.
Any suggestions for an emotional mess of a mother who is worried and at a loss for how to help.
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Pumpkinsandpickles · 24/11/2011 19:40
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