Looking for opinions, but be gentle, I'm feeling a bit
DS1is 5.5, just gone into yr1. To me, he is in many ways a typical 5 yr old, very active and lively and likes to play rough and tumble with his friends.
I've just had 1st formal meeting with teacher, who gave me sheets for his writing and numeracy targets (the numeracy he can do already, but hey, room for practice) and then moved quickly through acknowledging he's good at reading (free reader, school have helped by moving him up to y2 3 days a week for phonics, which he enjoys) to saying his behaviour is a problem. She specifically listed: messing about in the line at line up time, jigging around the classroom at tidy up time and tickling his friends on the mat at carpet time; and he doesn't like being told off. I checked explicitly that there is no "nasty" malicious behaviour going on, there isn't. And during any tasks, he sits down, completes them and has "excellent concentration." (He does, he can read for >1hr without moving more than a finger to turn the pages if he wants to and gets similarly absorbed in all sorts of other things)
TBH, it seems to me like minor discipline issues that I am expecting any primary teacher to meet regularly and deal with. And yes, I am keen to support the school and DS1 will have it made clear that he does need to learn to abide by the rules of the community. I am concerned that boredom may be part of the issue, tried to raise this and was stonewalled. But I came away feeling that this was the only thing that the teacher was focusing on and that DS is going to acquire the label of "the naughty boy" for little more than exuberance. I have agreed a strategy for dealing with behaviour, in that we will have a marble jar at home for good classroom behaviour, but is this overkill?
Sorry for long post and thank you for any input!
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Parents evening and "behaviour" issues
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wearymum200 · 12/10/2011 19:35
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