hello, new member so apologies if posted in wrong spot. My DD (yr5) has for the most part had friends at school and outside - odd problem but had a close friendship group that have been there for her. But no more, BF has moved on (fair enough) and has been extremely unpleasant in the process resulting in the situation that my DD is excluded and feels hated by pretty much the whole class - and has been told so. This has been the case now for a couple of months and is still escalating.
I have involved the school (very supportive) and have good lines of communication with exBF's mother who is also supportive but I sense does not know the state of unpleasantness it has now reached - I can easily resolve this. My DD has three outside school friends who she sees separately once a week and many non-school hobbies.
But i'm now coming unstuck with what more I can do. Any ideas? In particular advice on whether to discuss with her at length to fully understand what's happening and act upon it or just breezily ask how her day went and move on to stop her dwelling on it.
I keep emphasising to her that this happens to most people at some point (she doesn't believe me) and that it will soon pass. We've also talked about how it all came about (she wanted to) and things that can be learnt from this.
Thanks in anticipation. My heart is breaking for her.
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Advice on supporting yr5 girl being bullied/excluded appreciated
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Yourefired · 30/06/2011 01:09
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