Hi all,
I have 3 year old twin boys who go to a fantastic childminder while I'm working shifts.
I now have to start thinking about putting their name down for a primary school.
I have 2 options:
- Boys can stay with their fantastic childminder but will need to go to school X.
- Boys will have a nanny and go to school Y.
Both schools are outstanding according to Ofsted but school Y is my preference because it's smaller and the boys are far more likely to be accepted (I know that sounds like a paradox but it's true for various reasons).
I'm SO stuck. I love our childminder but I also really value the importance of going to the right school. My concern is that if we choose option 2 we may not find a nanny because my shifts are all over the place so it really limits our choice (the nanny would have to want a flexible, part time position).
If we stay with the childminder my boys may not get into school X (and run a good risk of being placed in a terrible school instead) and even if they did get into that school I have concerns about my DS being in such a large setting (it has about 500 pupils) given that he has Autistic Spectrum Disorder.
HELP!!! Don't know what to do and really losing sleep over it