Hi all
I'm new here, I'm after a bit of advice please.
My son has been lucky enough to get into both Rosemead and Alleyn's.
My head is saying Alleyn's and my heart is saying Rosemead.
I'm hoping someone on here who has children at either can give me an inside view.
Basically, Alleyn's is clearly incredible but
1 - when we went on the tour there was not one black face in the whole junior school. Or asian. Or chinese.
It seems odd that the school is so overwhelmingly white, given that London isn't. It felt almost strangely stepford wivish, if you see what I mean
- On the assessment day, there were one or two nice mums, and several who were really standoffish, one to the point of being rude. I was chatting to a friendly posh mum and another posh mum came up and basically just cut me out the conversation! I thought it was incredibly rude but I found it amusing at the time, but now I don't -what if I'm cut out and my son doesn't get pay dates? what if I don't get on with the other mums?
- we can afford the fees, but we haven't got a big house or a nice car etc - will we fit in? All the other mums at the assesment day were all clearly much better off than us, and I wondered if this contributed to their stand offish nature.
- several were already tutoring the kids outside school - it seemed insane. can I avoid being caught up in this?
so, I just didn't like the feel of Alleyn's in many ways - am I wrong to not send son there on a hunch? Anyone else got experience and can assure me that it is not overwhelmingly posh and a person with a thick accent like mine, and clearly (ex!) working class will actually fit in.