I was having a really friendly chat with my mumsnet buddies and now it has gone

[kellyegg]

does this happen a lot on here?


Should I contact the GTC?

[mrz]

First time it's happened to a thread I'm on

[kellyegg]

You keep poor company ;-)

[mrz]

now or on previous threads that didn't get pulled?

[Goblinchild]

This is a puzzling side to you mrz, so even the best of us can enjoy a dabble in the dirt?
It actually makes me feel better to know that your feet are somewhat clay-stained.
Even if you are wearing red stilettos.

[kellyegg]

I am concerned I am sullying your reputation on here MSZ. You know I like you just as much as your shoes.

[kellyegg]

Perhaps MSZ just doesn't take it too seriously.

[Goblinchild]

mrz as Dominatrix?
She's normally so vanilla and sensible.

[childrenofthecornsilk]

doesn't take the mocking of sen too seriously kellyegg?

[kellyegg]

Only people who do the scene use Vanilla? Prey tell!

[kellyegg]

Children I think I made some good points, I think the thread was pulled due to the disgraceful language on show.

[mrz]

childrenofthecornsilk I'm the mother of a child with SEN so draw your own conclusions

[Goblinchild]

Well, that's what I was wondering too cornsilk. Being as she has an excellent reputation here for giving good advice and liking children, even those with SN.
So which is the real mrz?

[childrenofthecornsilk]

me too mrz -I will thanks

[Goblinchild]

Does kellyegg believe you though mrz, or does he think you are fantasising about your child's needs to cover your appalling parenting?
Or to grub up extra pennies?

[kellyegg]

I think they call that Flaming

[Goblinchild]

Really?
Then it's a good job I'm wearing my flame-proof knickers.
I rather enjoy a witty and barbed conversation,eloquent argument and irony, but picking on SN isn't an area for juvenile jolly japes. Our children are not meat for your delectation and amusement.

[childrenofthecornsilk]

mrz -I was directing my initial post at kellyegg not you. I don't believe for a minute that you actually support kellyeggs views on sen

[childrenofthecornsilk]

kellyegg's

[kellyegg]

Ok let us clarify


Special needs are a vital part of educational policy

Over diagnosis does not do anyone any favours. The register gets bigger each year and yet strangely it also co-incides with the large number of parents who cannot cope.
. Well the honest truth is that we waste billions on special needs and the sad fact remains that some children will not progress no matter how much money you throw at them. Children in my experience always live up or down to your expectations. There are genuine special needs out there but being naughty is not a special need it is often linked to exceptionally poor parenting, however give it a condition and it gets these parents off the hook. 30% of children will never reach national expectations even if they have a million 1-1 supports. Special needs in some cases is a neccesity and in far too many an excuse

[childrenofthecornsilk]

Are you a teacher kellyegg?

[mrz]

Goblin what you see is why you get

[mrz]

To be honest childrenofthecornsilk I hadn't even read kelly's thread before it got pulled.

[kellyegg]

Am I a teacher?


Is it relevant?

[childrenofthecornsilk]

okay mrz - that makes sense. Wasn't having a go at you but I found kelly's OP on the other thread offensive. Sorry if you took my post personally.

[kellyegg]

Yet as you lack any ideology of your own, you are unable to engage apart from the I am offended platitudes