Hi all. I'm new here. Haven't used mumsnet since DD was a baby. The last few months have been hard. I know it's been hard for a lot of people. Have 1 child and her bedtime routine in a nightmare causing strife between us. Would like some advice of anyone has any suggestions. Dd started to show signs of anxiety and ocd which we are waiting to get assessed. Because of these little rituals it takes her an AGE to get ready for bed (or ready for anything). Her bedtime routine is meant to be in the bath room for 7.30pm, teeth, toilet, shower and we would be lucky if she is in bed by 9.30pm. Ideally she'd be in bed for 9 on a school night but it seems to get later and later. Dh doesnt help by telling her to hurry up, or comments that should be ready which leaves her feeling like she's failed and in the go slow or even crying. I've tried helping her to get ready, leaving her to it and everything in between and I just don't know what to do to help her get to bed on time. She's up at 7am but with an alarm. Any advice greatly appreciated.
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