My pre-teen adopted daughters seem to fight more and more.....they are half-sisters, very different personalities, only a year apart in age and I feel like I'm failing them. Youngest likes to be by herself a lot, oldest hates to be alone and although they do enjoy playing together - this weekend they were acting out Secret Life of Pets with eldest pretending to be Gidget and the youngest being her owner - they also bicker endlessly.
Before school they are both fine until the final five or ten minutes when one of them will say something mean / grab the others water bottle or any one of a million stupid things and then one - usually eldest - will kick or hit the youngest - who's often wound her up - and suddenly there's tears, screaming and so much stress, just as I'm trying to get them in the car. And sometimes so much drama it's not safe to drive.
We talk a lot about being kind, there are often consequences - no i-pad after school etc - but I'm getting this very wrong because if anything it's getting worse. How can I help them to get on better ?
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Kids kicking off before school ( and all the time ....) help me please !
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skybluedaze · 10/10/2019 09:43
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