My 9 year old daughter is 5 ft 1 inches and ‘well built’ but certainly not ‘fat’ It’s causing friction between me and hubby as he’s always saying to me that she should lose weight. He doesn’t say this to her but he does question what she eat she A LOT. Tonight she’s had salmon stir fry for tea followed by a small piece of cake she made at cookery club at school. Just before bed she ate a punnet of blueberries and his comment was ‘have you eaten ALL of those.’ ( he was sitting in the room while she was eating but didn’t say anything to her until they’d all gone. She does have a bit of a tummy on her and she is very aware of this as a lot of girls at school are very very slim and she is aware she isn’t different. I’m very cautious as to what i say to her as I know how it can affect her in the future. She eats well, a good balanced diet ( I think) and does cheerleading, sports club at school one lunchtime and has just joined another gymnastics class at a weekend. I’m so worried about this whole situation and don’t feel like I have anyone to turn to. Help!!!!
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