Is bitchiness between girls just par of the course at age 12?? What can i do to stop it?? My dd has quite a few friends at school but as they are in sets ,forms , and after school clubs she has a couple of friends from each and they seem to all be so jealous of each other. My dd is quite highly strung as are these girls. They have all tried being friends together but it doesn't work as they all want to be in charge. She has one friend who is so lovely and calm and very studious but so shy. She keeps her head down and doesn't get involved with any of it but she doesn't have much about her hence why my dd prefers her other friends because they have fun together. But if one of them speaks to the other one or initatiates an afternoon at someone's house the other girls get so bitchy . My dd is just as bad if someone organises something without her she gets jealous. There was a massive fallout last night where 3 of them ganged up on another girl and were so nasty - although this girl is a real pain and so intense that her jealousy and neediness pushed them all over the edge. Why can't they all get along?? She doesn't seem to mind confrontation and always stands up for herself just like my mum - whereas I am much more placid and can't be doing with bitchy women I just ignore them but she isnt able to she has to bitch back!!
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Parenting a preteen can be a minefield. Find support here.
Preteens
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.