incident at friends house what to do?

[passion4pno]

I'd never had this happen before and need advice. I sent the 2 girls 8 and 12 to a friends house. One went to one friend, and one to the other. They live next door to each other. Anyway, the 8 yo came back saying that her sister (who was playing with her friend as well as the 8 yo friend) be pulled up her dress, and that she was also hit by this friend of hers. The mother apparently was resting in bed so I think she probably has no idea what happened. Do I go over and talk to the parents or just leave it be? By way, the 12 yo is livid and sorcery dying all knowledge of what happened, but she always lies anyone.

What would you do?

[Atenco]

Sorry, I really don't understand your post

[Ughnotagain]

Who pulled whose dress up? Your post isn't very clear.

[TheMaddHugger]

((((((((((((((Hugs))))))))))))

So sorry, I can't read this post either, but (((((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))

[differentnameforthis]

So your eldest daughter lifted the skirt of her younger sibling?

And eldest daughter's friend hit your younger child too?

And one of the mums was asleep?

I wouldn't be happy about my children being unsupervised and I would be having words with your eldest about boundaries & refusing to let her go to her friends.

[YouBastardSockBalls]

It's hardly an 'incident.'
Kids fall out. They'll be friends again next week.

[passion4pno]

Sorry folks... That's what you get when you write first...

The eldest pulled the youngest skirt up revealing her underwear. Then her friend hit her. The mum was asleep in bed at the time, so didn't know any of this.

[YouBastardSockBalls]

Sounds like pretty standard child behaviour.
What time was it? Could the mum have reasonably been expected to be asleep?

The girls just need to apologise to each other. Job done.

[passion4pno]

230 in the afternoon.

[Atenco]

I don't think children of that age need supervision actually. Children need to learn how to negotiate their problems with each other, it's part of growing up.