DS11 almost 12 is a relatively confident and happy boy in first year of secondary school.
However, since the start of this school year he has been dealing with some issues from one boy in particular who does seem to be an issue for a lot of other children going by what I've heard from other parents (talking swearing at, name-calling, tripping up, and just all-round horribleness) DS has generally managed this well with standard techniques we've helped him with such as trying to ignore said child, the usual 'can you stop that please' 'you're not impressing anyone' etc and also been to his form teacher and even head of his year on his own to discuss. He's also been good at sticking up for other kids in the class that are less vocal from what he tells me. But recently he has been a lot more worried about the whole thing coming home very frustrated and sad and asking me to take him to hairdressers because his hair isn't right and basically having a melt down when we couldn't get an appointment that night! :(, I have been into school twice in the past 2 months and have been emailing directly with form teacher who informs me he is 'very much aware of the situation' with this particular child... and to top it off tonight I go onto the computer to find history of him googling 'good comebacks against bullies' and 'is prick a swear word' (I'm assuming here he is thinking of insults that he won't get in trouble for haha )
Basically I'm running out of advice for him - me and DH have spent hours before bed recently going through ways in which he can be resilient (although how much can we really expect him to be put up with!?) and also things he can do/say to stop the bully but we are now stuck and the boy isn't showing any signs of slowing!
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StruggleAvenue · 16/12/2015 19:26
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