agression

[emilychris2]

i am at the end of my tether. My kids' father left last Christmas and we have been coping OK. But my son is fighting in school. REALLLLLLLY fighting. He has a lot of aggression against his father as he is a loser and hasn't seen the kids since March. I completely understand his frustration and anger against him. This I can cope with. But it is the fighting at school. There is another boy who's father died 4-5 years ago and is having a hard time also. This is a huge excuse used by the school. But my poor son is both being bullied and being aggressive. What am i going to do to make my son understand he has to take responsibility for his actions and to try and be less sensitive and try to grow up (im sorry, i dont think this is the answer, but seems to be what is expected by society these days). Am lost. Lost

[Wolfiefan]

Excuse used by the school? Charming.
Anger management for the aggression?
Counselling regarding father?
School should deal with bully.