As a treat my in laws took two of my girls 7 and 10 to London for the weekend ,staying in a hotel ,science museum ,Harrods and Winter wonderland which we thought would be wonderful.Grandad arranged everything and said it would give them some happy memories for when they die .However10 yo seemed to decide from the start that she wasn't going to have fun and was stroppy and moody the whole weekend refusing to hold hands with grandad even in crowded places .The 7 year old was perfect ,now the thing is the 10 yo is from a previous relationship and the 7 yo is from present one so reality is that Grandad isn't related at all to any of the kids (his partner is mines Mum) and he was very upset and felt unloved by 10 yo even though he accepts them as his own grandkids , she hasn't apologised for her behaviour and at the moment he doesn't even want to talk to her he is that upset and we are going to theres on Christmas day I don't want any friction between them .What do you suggest I tell 10 yo to do ?
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