My boy is a good kid, fun, happy, talkative and great with us as a family, he has been at the same school since reception and is now in year 5 . . .six years, is that? of the same class pals.
i dont really feel any of them are our friends. he seems a bit bored and feels left out at school. could you post examples of what friendships exist at this age . . .9.
At the school gate we seem to think friends are on rotation but there does seem to be a divide at this age, of those who have older siblings and may be older in the year dominating the group with their instructions at playtime and the less confident or less demanding kids are in a silent battle of relegation.
I feel that this time may slip by and my boy may not gain anything from the group dynamic and at worst be really put off by it. ive posted before that im annoyed that school brings issues other than good stuff. . as a girl at this age i had fiends that lasted a life time. . .can i expect this from boy kids?
Ive got an idea I am gonna call it 4 x4 , 4 boys 4 hours group play meets.
Different combinations. . . strict numbers. 4 hours is making me smile, just long enough to push the boundaries of simple and create abit of bonding. next stop 4 days camping. . .childs play!
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getitright222 · 07/10/2013 10:12
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