I'm just going to blather on a bit here so please excuse me.
DS is turning into an alien being that I don't recognise nor particularly like some of the time.
DH: please can you collect any library books you have.
DS: I didn't ask you to get them, so no I won't
Me: I don't like it when you interrupt me
DS: Well I'll do it again then.
He thinks it's funny and that he's a "bad man" because he got an after school detention.
We get a lot of him HAVING to have the last word or being really rude and I just don't know how to handle it.
I did have a good talk with him yesterday about how we will not tolerate rudeness or disrespect in our house and he does acknowledge his behaviour is rude and upsetting to others, but in response to asking why he does it he says "I don't know".
I think he is having a testosterone surge at the moment as he'd grown visibly in the last couple of month (like 3 shoes sizes in 2 months or something).
It's not all bad. He's doing very well academically, he's absolutely wonderful with his toddler brother and he can be trusted on his own at home (and to get on with the chores I leave him).
Thanks.
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bonkers20 · 14/06/2011 08:55
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