My dd2 is 2.3 and started pre-school in Sept with the idea that she would have 2 years at pre-school before school - the same as her older sister. She is an August birthday though so is one of the very youngest there. She is particularly clingy so we have tried a very gentle settling in process with me staying for nearly all of the sessions, barring time for a coffee upstairs in each one. When I go upstairs she cries for the entire time (10-20 mins). She also breath-holds to the point of passing out if she gets too upset which is another reason why pre-school are encouraging me to take it slowly. They are scared that she's going to faint on them and that that will become associated in her head with me coming back to rescue her so she'll do it more often....
I have now done this for an entire half-term and it doesn't seem to be getting better. I don't work, so I don't need her to go for childcare reasons, although I was looking forward to 6 hours a week to myself! Am strongly considering pulling her out and trying again next September when she'd just turned 3. What would you do?
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Runoutofideas · 07/11/2009 15:07
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