Ds struggles a bit because dd2 is in the same nursery class. She has been there for a year and has loads of friends and is well settled.
Ds tends to play with his sister and I don't think he ever plays with anyone else. When dd2 is not in the room (doing phonics in the other class room, or something else that the elder kids get to do) then he tells me that he just waits for her to come back.
Have mentioned this to the nursery staff on a couple of occasions and they have told me that he is absolutely fine and has loads of friends and plays nicely with the other children, not moping around after his sister.
So why does he tell me that he doesn't play with the other kids?
I'm not naive enough to think that my children will never lie, but he doesn't appear to be fibbing, he says it quite matter of factly and doesn't want anything.
Dd2 says he plays with her all the time and doesn't know what happens when she is not in the room.
So do I trust that the nursery staff are right and for some reason ds is not telling the truth?
Or do I trust that ds is telling the truth, in which case, what do I do? I've asked the staff and they have said that there is definitely no problem.
Yet I'm still worried.
any suggestions?
(dd2 will leave nursery for "big school" in Sept btw, but it's a long time for ds if he really doesn't have any other friends)
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ds seems to be struggling for friends at nursery. Nursery staff say no problem. What now?
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fryalot · 07/02/2009 17:13
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