My DS attends the preschool of a small nurturing pre/prep school, he is in the pre-reception class.
A new teacher started, she used to teach yr 1/2. My DS is very scared of her, she is a rather tall and large lady with a very booming voice and quite an abrupt manner. A 50 something, unmarried woman, no DC - if that is at all relevant.
Last years teacher was all lovely and soft, cuddly and the Dc adored her.
My DS has stopped wanting to go in and we have never had this problem before. He is fine until he gets to the threshold of her class and she booms out "GOOD MORNING XXX" he then freezes and will not go in. He says he wants to come home, asking me to stay, has to go in with his old teacher (next door class for very young DC) for 30 mins before he can be persuaded to join his class.
Old teacher has intimated that she thinks I have a problem with the new teacher not my DS! (I suppose I do, in as much as I think she isn't right to teach pre schoolers)
Today when I went in a mother was just coming out, she had left her child crying. As I walked past classroom door DS' new teacher was holding child firmly by the arms saying very loudly and firmly (not quite shouting but nearly) right into child's face (less than 10cms away?) "No Stop, this is not acceptable, no stop" over and over. The child was getting more and more upset.
By the time I was settling DS in the class next door the child was almost hysterical. I told the most senior member of staff in the next door that the teacher next door was on her own (in a class of 6 or so dc) and might appreciate some support.
When I left Snr staff memeber was walking around the play garden holding hands with the child who was much calmer but still sobbing.
Now the teacher has suggested I make my DS go into her classroom and leave him to cry instead of allowing him to go next door until he is ready. I am against this anyway, but especially if this is how she deals with it.
Should I mention my concerns about this teachers methods and be (unjustly) thought to have a 'problem' with her or leave it?
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marmadukescarlet · 17/09/2008 10:46
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