My dd is 3 shortly. She has been attending the same nursery for more than 2 years. Her carers have always been lovely/creative/warm and we have generally been very happy with them. We recently discovered that dd wouldn't be 'moving up' to the 'pre-school' room until Aug/Sep. Basically, they need children to leave to go to school to free up space in the 'pre-school' room. Other children (depending on their birth dates) move up when they are 3. It seems unfair on her, mostly because she is ready to move up (eg educationally she is well on the way to knowing her letters and recognises most numbers up to 10; she is confident around older children). She goes to a local pre-school one morning a week and loves it; it's exactly the sort of environment I wish she could be in full-time but it is a small, largely volunteer-run setting. I can understand the logistics of trying to fit children in/staffing ratios etc when you are running a nursery but there is no halfway house - if she doesn't move up, there is no 'extra' attention given to her or any other children who are 'held back'; she'll be learning colours and shapes for the umpteenth time. It's all or nothing. Anyways, we are considering another nursery until Sep and then pre-prep for the year before school. Has anyone else experienced this 'moving up' problem - are we 'pushy' parents or do we just want the best for our dd?
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Am I being unreasonable? nursery woes - am considering moving dd
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newkid · 26/03/2007 11:05
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