Hi all
Hoping you can help me with a dilemma. I have two boys - ds1 who is 6, born at 30 weeks and ds2 who is 4, born at 34 weeks and has autism, he is due to start school in September.
We moved house recently. Ds1 still goes to school 30 minutes drive away, near our old house. He is in the year below the year group his date of birth indicates he should be in due to being prem (he had an August birth instead of an October birth, but his school agreed to admit him based on due date not date of birth).
Ds2 goes to the nursery which is part of the local school two minutes from our house. I have applied for him to start school there in September, as they have tiny classes and are fantastic at meeting his needs. I didn't apply to send him to ds1's school because they have a two class intake (so 60 children) all in one giant classroom which ds2 wouldn't be able to cope with due to his autism.
So we applied to move ds1 to the local school. The local school are refusing to continue teaching him out of year group, and say they will only take him into his correct year. So ds1 will effectively miss a whole year of schooling. He is not top of his class academically (about in the middle), but is socially less skilled than his peers - this is the greater concern. He is sensitive, caring, very sweet natured but quite particular in what he thinks is right and wrong etc (i.e. Easily offended!!) so finds the hustle and bustle of life at school very demanding. He will be out of his depth even more if moved up a year.
What should I do? In September they will be starting and finishing school at the same time but 30 mins apart (longer in traffic - sometimes takes an hour at worst).
Any ideas very welcome. I am beginning to despair and googling homeschooling (except that I work and couldn't give up so no idea why I'm bothering to consider it...). Help!
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hopedance · 28/03/2016 08:21
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