I just got a surprise positive test and think I may be around 4-5 weeks pregnant. I'm 37 and my cycle has started to go weird (potential perimenopause) but I think it was a condom accident with DH in mid-Sep.
We were definitely not TTC. Last year I had a miscarriage that became a surgical termination at 8 weeks, and after that we had some long hard talks and decided that kids were not for us. I don't feel regret about what happened, and believe that we made the right call for our future.
Having said that, I'm worried about going through all that again. It's rough emotionally and it took my body about 6 months to get back on track.
Not really asking for advice as I'm sure I'll go ahead with the second termination, but I just don't want to feel the after effects and grossness. Is it wrong to be so blase about this? I feel like I should be more concerned but somehow it doesn't feel real yet.
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Two terminations in two years - options?
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ExpatWino · 21/10/2018 17:15
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