AIBU to terminate this pregnancy?

ConfusedStudent123 · 2018-09-06 21:45:08

I’m 16 weeks pregnant and I’ve known for a little while but I’ve been ignoring it. I’ve been with my partner for 5 years and although I know he really wants us to keep it, he has promised me that he will support me in what ever choice I make. I’m a student and I have 1 year left of university and I am lucky enough to say that I have secured a graduate job for when I finish. My partner graduated last summer and has a relatively well paid job. I guess it’s not about the money though, I’m not sure I’m ready to put my future career opportunities on hold. Plus I had an unstable upbringing and I want a safe and secure environment for any children I choose to have, which is something I don’t feel I have yet. Am I being unreasonable to want to terminate it? It’s not something I would normally agree with though so it’s breaking my heart. Sorry to reach out to MN, I don’t have any close relatives to discuss it with and I just want some help and support to feel like I’m not doing the wrong thing. What would you do?

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