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Worst mistake of my life ?

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Hullmummy123 Sun 02-Apr-17 20:41:33

Hey smile
A year ago in may I had a medical abortion.
We had only been together a few months but we've known each other since we was children. Now where in a happy relationship but I find like if someone's pregnant or showing off a baby I am majorly jealous!
My partners step mum had a baby just before Christmas and when my partner showed me pictures I didn't Wanna know.
The abortion was 100000% my choice but we never really spoke about it it just happened and at the time I didn't regret it but the more time goes on the more jealous I get of people who are pregnant and just had babies. I find myself sitting and crying but can't seem to talk to my partner about it
I go on holiday the same day and I don't wanna be putting a downer on the hol sad

Hullmummy123 Sun 02-Apr-17 20:42:00

Sorry. Same day as the abortion but a year on x

user1490271758 Fri 07-Apr-17 12:44:18

It is normal to feel this way I think, abortion is such a big and hard decision but you made it because you felt that is what you needed to do at the time. Try not to regret it and just move on with your life and be happy with your decisions smile You can have babies any time you are ready xx

Blossom789 Mon 17-Apr-17 20:18:05

Try not to beat yourself up. It sounds like you made the right choice last year however this year you and your partner are secure with each other and with that you are thinking about a family. Imagine if it hadn't worked out with your partner and you'd gone ahead with the pregnancy.

I used to get jealous of people having babies all the time not related to previous abortion but me being broody!

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