Hi there, I wonder if anyone can help (excuse the long post) - because I have no one to talk to about this. I am recently married and came off the pill due to recurrent migraines - I then (stupidly) tried to rely on the rythmn method - I am so angry at myself now that I find myself in the early stages of pregnancy. I took a few tests which have come back with a faint positive. My husband and I live in a one bed rented flat, we could not afford for me to give up my job (or his) and my maternity benefits are minimal. My husband would happily 'try to make it work' - but I am the person in the relationship who holds all the responsibility - cleaning, buying food, trying to plan a budget - everything. On top of this my Mum doesn't help - she keeps insisting I delay having children, focus on my job - and I know she would be horribly disappointed. I also want to focus on my career for just another year or two - it would make all the difference to my life and our finances I think. I feel I have no one I can turn to and the weight of this decision is mine alone (as with everything else in our life!) - I have no one to turn to. It is not as though I take this decision lightly and feel an awful guilt about wanting to end this pregnancy. I had booked into Marie Stopes for a medical abortion, but nothing showed up on the ultrasound scan as it is too early - I am booked again next week. The appointment was horrible - the to nurses discussed another patient in front of me, rolling their eyes etc - and I felt so rushed I didn't have the opportunity to discuss any options. I naively thought they would be sympathetic and it would provide me with my first opportunity to talk to someone. I am a rational person - but is there anything I can do before my next appointment (1 week from now) to make this pregnancy unviable? I am desperate. Any help or advice would be appreciated.
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