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I can't go though with the abortion..[please help]

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Itsacoldnightday · 16/11/2015 20:07

Here's a link to my previous thread regarding my back story:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2499703-Im-pregnant-by-abusive-ex.

I booked myself to have an abortion this week, but I can't go through with it. I just can't. . I'm torn over my decision, I feel like breaking down, my heart is aching. I don't want to go through with it, but apart of me is telling me I need to. Why am I feeling like this? I feel like there's no way out.

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hesterton · 16/11/2015 20:16

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Stroopwaffel · 16/11/2015 22:21

Don't go through with it if you feel like that op. I have been where you are and I did go through with it because I just wanted the whole situation over with. I have regretted it ever since, so much and wish I had listened to my gut instinct.

It's an awful situation to be in, do you have anyone in rl you can talk to?

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Itsacoldnightday · 17/11/2015 12:06

Thanks Stroopwaffel and hesterton, I've calmed down. After a lot of thinking, I have decided to terminate. It is a horrible situation to be in, but once I calmed down and thought carefully, it is something that I do want to go through. I'll be very sad, very, very, but I'll also be relived.