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Pregnancy choices

This would make 4!

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HoldMeDown · 22/06/2015 18:51

This is pretty hypothetical at the moment...
Worrying I may be pregnant. This would be less than ideal. Having relationship issues(trying to work through them but still not sure how successful we'll be), we already have 3 children, the youngest is 8 months old. All 3 of my pregnancies have been horrific, resulting in them all being born premature. All natural births though.
I've always been anti-abortion(sorry) unless it was absolutely necessary for the health and well-being of mum or baby. But...
Our house is already too small, our relationship is well, a bit shit, I struggle sometimes with the DCs we already have and the thought of another pregnancy like the others, terrifies me!
I know the 'right' thing to do would be to terminate but I don't think I could live with myself for doing that to one of my babies?! It would undoubtedly haunt me for the rest of my life. Not to mention, I'd be a total hypocrite!
And yes, I realise that I shout POAS at some point soon. Denial/ignorance is bliss...
Apologies for the waffle and well done if you read to the end!

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Molotov · 22/06/2015 19:28

Just bite the bullet and POAS. No need to torture yourself if you're not pg.

If you are pg, then think.

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