Hi
Am 7+1 and after a pretty easy ride so far now feel quite ill and exhausted, to the extent that it is making it very hard to concentrate at work and I want to fall asleep all the time. Also feel bloated, moody,weepy and keep weeing incessantly. Have told my ex boss who is also my mate, and the bloke on my team who is another mate and sits next to me, in confidence and they are both pleased as anything for me, but nobody 'official' yet ie. HR, department head, etc.
Was intending to wait til 12 weeks but now thinking a) if I MC it might be easier if they know I was PG and then will be more sympathetic if I need time off,
b) plus I 'm also starting to look shit
and sound tired and distracted and lacking in enthusiasm and may need to take time off with the nausea/exhaustion etc if it gets much worse ( hope not as have lots to do).
Was wondering when people here told work , and what the outcomes were? ( both positive and negative). Did you feel it was a good thing if you told them before 12 weeks? Were you reluctant to tell them because of being 'invisible'/passed over for promotion/responsibility etc? Did you feel relieved? What are the advantages and disadvantages of coming clean early?
Would be really interested to hear...
Thanks
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When to tell work?
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Miffster · 28/04/2010 09:48
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