me again, this is my second thread on this subject, thought he was gonna come to terms with it, seems not.
long and short of it.... got drunk, forgot party hats, i stopped him and said 'erm, if i get preg, im having the baby' 'yeah, yeah of course' he replied.
carried on, thought not a lot of it as he (tmi warning!) withdrew.
aunt flo didnt come, tested - positive, doc has confirmed.
told doc dh not sure, said i the baby, doc gave me leaflets explaining how termination are carried out, the baby's developmental stage at the mo... etc etc.
dh read leaflet said 'its not informative, just a guily trip so you dont terminate'
he is not being horrible to me or anything, but is a bit distant and short tempered. he does not want this baby in all honesty and i feel absolutely awful knowing he does not want it. i am going to have the baby, but cant feel happy about it without him behind me 100%.
he said theres nothing to say in 2 weeks time he may feel differently, but at the mo, he is dead against.
am i in the wrong to say 'i am going to have it' as that is not considering his wishes or is he wrong or both wrong?
your views please.
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preg with no.4, dh not pleased, please help/advise/whatever
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LadyOfTheFlowers · 11/08/2009 15:48
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