Hi, I'm 10 wks pregnant with DC 2 and have a 2.6 yr DC1, who I am totally in love with. So much so that I am struggling to see how I can fit another DC into my life. It was a planned pregnancy, and both DH and I were (are) v pleased, but I'm struggling to "bond" with the idea at the moment and worried that this won't change...
I'm worried that I'll not love the new one as much as DC1, or that I will struggle to give enough to DC1 once my time and energy are consumed by the new baby.
If I'm honest, I'm dreading the new arrival at the moment and wondering if I've made a horrible mistake, but I always wanted 2 children as don't want DC1 to be an only child (no offence to anyone who is/has an only child, it's just a personal choice of ours to have more than one). I'm looking forward to having a complete family and for DC1 to have a sibling, etc, and I don't mind at all whether it is a boy or another girl.
I'm just dreading the first year and really scared of how it will affect DC1 and my ability to cope on a day-to-day basis.
Is this normal to feel like this? Will it change? Is it just because I am still feeling nauseous and exhausted at the very thought of babies at the moment (as only 10 wks)? Will I feel better once I'm a bit further along?
Any words of advice for how to talk myself out of this now and when the baby arrives much appreciated.
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Expecting DC2 and worried that I haven't bonded with the idea yet and that I won't have enough love and energy to go round
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Roomfor2 · 09/08/2009 18:21
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