Last year, we had to terminate our pregnancy at 26 weeks due to significant chromosomal abnormalities, and problems with heart, lung and brain development. Our daughter was cremated, and we have a memorial tree planted in a local park.
We are now expecting again, and our baby is due in Sept. Naturally, we are both very excited, but a little nervous....do we mention our daughter in normal conversation, much as we do at the moment, or will this cause confusion for the new child? Do we leave it til later, or will this risk some sort of teenage strop, and having to justify what for us was the right decision?
Would be grateful for any advice.
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Mole007 · 01/07/2009 12:02
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