Hi guys
So my son is 2years old and my mother in law is driving me crazy . She waits until I leave the room to talk to my partner about my sons presents that me and my partner asked her to get, she didn’t buy the present we asked her she decided more then 1 ( we are not ungrateful by the way it’s just my son already has a lot of toys and would like him to have educational toys ). When a family member asks me questions regarding my son she interferes and answer for me like he is her son , on a few occasions she’s accidentally called herself Mum to him, I wanted to get him a certain toy then next time I seen her she mentioned she wanted to get him the exact toy like I didn’t mention it before . She also buys clothes for my son without talking to me about it ( I’m very organized , I have list for my sons clothing so we don’t have too much or not enough and I’m also always a year in front age wise )
She is very controlling and inserts herself into decisions that are nothing to do with her, I have spoken to my partner about this a number of times but he just says she won’t change she will just argue with him .
I do understand he is her first grandchild but he is also my first son and I feel like she’s trying to take over my role as mother and over step her boundaries.
I absolutely dread going to see her as I’m always on guard and it can be mentally draining.
I think my next step is to take her for a walk and put my foot down because we are about to move into a new house and I don’t want her and her bad aura around me everyday I don’t think I could cope.
Firstly do you guys think that is a good idea , the walk that is ?
And do you also think I’m in the wrong , or the things that are happening are normal mother in law behavior ?
Thanks
Lucy
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Lucylu92 · 05/10/2020 21:36
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