Hi just after some advice really and just to actually let off some steam
So I’m 20 weeks pregnant currently have a daughter who’s 4.. so as you can imagine it’s hard work 😓.. my main issue is my husbands drinking he’s not an alcoholic or something but it’s just every weekend he just goes out and gets pissed with his uncle or friends.. it’s constant every weekend and sometimes can be one day in the week too.. I’m not a wife who says stuff like u ain’t allowed out blah blah I don’t stop him.. but there’s a difference of going to the pub for a few drinks and you come home n then there’s u going to the pub and coming back pissed at 2:30 in the morning and then not waking up in the morning to look after your daughter... I’m just getting sick n tired of it every single weekend I just get told oh I have had a long week with work and soon as I say well why don’t u actually do something with your daughter take her out etc it just turns into a big thing like oh don’t make out I don’t do nothing ?? But hold on u don’t yeah u pay the bills I work part time but that’s got nothing to do with what you do with ur own child surely?? Being pregnant u don’t need the stress and agg and then ur up the next day early coz my daughter is and it’s always me he never gets up early just stays asleep while I do everything else..
Like yesterday we was meant to go out and eat and then my daughter asked n he was like no we go Sunday n then as he was leaving she said why don’t u stay home with us?? Surely that should make u think twice or at least come back early.. to me your not single on your own where you can come back at 2/3 in the morning. I just think what if something was to happen and I needed him to support me take me to hospital how can that even be possible ?!
I’m just so fed up 😞
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Miss2820 · 06/09/2020 09:03
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