Hi all...
So im 24, been with OH 14months and moved in with him just before our 1 year. Hes like my missing piece and we click so well.
Only problem is the previous relationship I was in wasnt too great. My ex never hurt me but it was looking after an adult baby who just couldn't understand things. I was with him for two years. After 2m of dating I fell pregnant. We wernt ready and so had an abortion which was painful not just physically but mentally and i grew up quite quick after that... but as much as I was crying for a baby ive lost, he didnt understand why I was sad. Fast forward another 18m and we fell pregnant again. We wanted to keep it. Told parents etc as we wernt living together. I was 22 by now. But 11 weeks and 4 days in.... I had a miscarriage. He wasnt at the hospital. My dad called and messaged but he was asleep. In the morning he woke and my dad said i was in hospital, but okau for now. He said oh okay and went to work. Didn't bother coming to see me.
But fast forward to now... im happy, settled witj my new OH in our own place... but obsessing about having a baby. Im mentioning to him every other day.
We said its best timing to try in a year or so as we have a tiny rental just big enough for us so we want to move first.... but I cant stop hoping one day the pill fails and i get pregnant...
Any suggestions.... im going crazy...
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1 abortion, 1 miscarriage and 1 obsession
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MumAt22 · 14/12/2019 23:51
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