I am due on the 18th May. My husband is self employed in a job which he works at a different school paying him or each individual day.
He has booked off 18th May to the 3rd June hoping baby will come about on time.
However we are both realistic enough to know that baby may very well come early or late. If she comes early there is really nothing to be done, however if she is late can we request an induction early for non medical reasons?
I have spoken to my midwife about sweeps and inductions and he seemed to be pushing me away from the idea of induction. He agreed to do a membrame sweep at 39w 5d to try and induce natural birth, but was very avoidant of the induction question.
I understand that inductions are expensive and unideal, but if my husband is back at work it will be very difficult for him to take much time off. Of course he will be off during the labour and immediately after, but he couldn't take much time off as 1. He wouldn't get paid and 2. cancelling on schools would badly damage his professional reputation.
I am a first time Mum and really anxious about something going wrong and needing surgery, and therefore struggling on my own afterwards. All of my friends and family work full time, except my Mum who is currently going through cancer treatment. So I don't want to put on her! IF the birth goes well I am sure everything will be manageable. My real concern is needing surgery (C section/ tearing) and then being on my own.
Can I insist on an induction for social reasons, or is it up to the hospital? I may not even go down this path, I am just interesting in knowing all of my options.
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Can you insist on an induction for non medical reasons?
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Pondlife87 · 26/04/2019 09:39
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