My dear friend and her DH have been trying to have a baby for a few years now. She has suffered four miscarriages - 3 in the first trimester and 1 in the second - and they are now considering IVF as they are now struggling to conceive at all. My heart breaks for her because I know how badly they have always wanted children.
I am now 8 weeks pregnant, and unsure about how to broach the subject. I think I will wait until I am well into my second trimester to tell her. The problem is she lives really quite far away (6-8 hours on the train), so it's unlikely I will be able to talk to her face to face, as we are both so busy with work etc. I will probably be seeing her around Christmas, but I can't leave it that long because I would then be confronting her with a bump, and that would probably really upset her.
Any ideas would be appreciated, particularly on how you would phrase it/approach the situation.
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How can I tell my friend?
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TeaAndToast85 · 21/09/2017 17:15
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