I recently split from my boyfriend and just looking for alittle bit of advice. This is my first pregnancy so I know nothing, So, Please be kind.
I'm about to turn 7 months pregnant and as we didn't want to jinx anything, We decided to wait till later in the pregnancy to start buying things. Now we have split up, I'm left to pay/buy everything as he won't help out.
He already has a child, but he pays absolutely nothing towards her, BUT I don't know if there was an agreed upon arrangement between him and her mother, He buys her birthday and Christmas presents and everything else, But financially, I KNOW he doesn't give her mother anything.
However, I feel if he wants to be involved with our son's life, He should pay some form of child support. Is this wrong of me to feel like this?
He has a very good income, Taking home over a grand a month and has no bills other than his phone bill and a hundred pound rent he lives with his family to pay for. His money normally goes on things like Concerts, Nights out, Things he wants etcetc, So its not like helping out would be a struggle for him or leave him short every month,
When we were together, He used money as a weapon against me constantly, Because he made a lot more than me.
I feel in a way, Its unfair that I am left to pay for absolutely everything BEFORE the baby is born and mostly everything after as the baby will be living with me. I feel he should help out financially when the baby is here, he only thinks he shouldn't because he already doesn't with his other child.
Again, Please be kind, I know nothing about this. Thank you.
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Should My Ex Pay Child Support after the baby is born?
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user1490444663 · 25/03/2017 12:47
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